Monday, April 20, 2015

Edified vs. Planchar

This week was kinda crazy, we set a goal to have 100 street contacts this week in addition to 40 lessons, and we did it, haha but it was hard. It's hard to be a leader in the mission cuz your always thinking about how you gotta set the example so you gotta reach your goals, haha so I'm kinda stressed but hey I'm losing myself more every day so its a good stress. We worked hard this week and to end the week on Saturday we took a bus to a little town called "20 of November" to see one of our investigators that accepted a baptismal date and came to church last week. It costs 25 pesos and is about an hour in the bus to get there so its a little sacrifice but it's worth it to help the investigators progress. Haha that what was going through my mind as we got off the bus and started walking to his house, only to find that him and three of his friends are outside drinking beer having a party....I was so angry....haha... so we went in the house to talk to his wife (a member) and the minute we went in the house, he and his buddies scuttle into a car and take off... . . . . no me venga..... 
 
So we told her we would come back when her brother got home so we could at least teach her a lesson (we can't be in a house alone with a woman). Haha so were mopin' around in this podunk town in the middle of nowhere trying to find somebody and everybody gave us the usual, "I'm catholic, I don't care what you say, I was born catholic, I will die catholic." So I was about ready to call it quits on this place and say "We'll see you all in the second coming..." but we decided to go back and visit this lady and her brother (an ex-missionary that has committed some serious sins...yikes). 
 
So we go back, and we found the ex-missionary hanging out with his girlfriend. Haha he gives us both a big hug and the usual "I was a missionary too" stuff.... I wasn't buying it and he always says he's gonna change, but never does, so in my mind I was thinking, let's just teach this guy quick, and head for home. So we all sit down and started talking about Jesus Christ and covenants and boom the Spirit came in the room and took over. 
 
There is a word here in the mission "planchar" it literally means to iron but there is a phrase in the mission that we are gonna "planchar" our investigators which basically means were gonna tell them that they aren't doing what they're supposed to, haha were gonna yell at em.. it's a terrible tactic cuz it just gets the investigator angry and we end up with nothing. 
 
But there is a huge difference in planchar and tell your investigator that what they are doing is wrong with the help of the Spirit, and that's what happened with this guy, we spoke by the Spirit, we reminded him of his convenants and of His Savior. I don't really remember everything we said but I definitely remember that we all felt humbled but edified. And that's the difference between planchar and reprimand with the Spirit, the investigator realizes what they are doing is wrong, but they are edified, not put down. So we leave the lesson with him promising us that he would come to church tomorrow with his sister, her husband (the drunk dude) and his girlfriend (a catholic lady that has never heard about the church). He has said that 10000 times to other missionaries so we left still doubting, cuz were idiots....
 
He came, with his girlfried, and his sister, and his brother in law..... I literally couldnt believe it....this kid hasnt showed up to church in years and not only did he show up but he brought the party with him.... God -1    E. Roberts - 0 .....haha 
 
He always beats me.....
 
So bottom line we are progressing well here, 100% with the help of Heavenly Father, we can't do anything without Him.

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